How to love a man without spoiling him? That's the question millions of women are asking themselves. They complain that their husbands or boyfriends demand too much and give back too little, and yet these women are often the ones doing the spoiling. Or, at the very least, they're unconsciously rewarding the very behaviour they complain about.In Stop Spoiling That Man, Dr John B. Arden and his wife, Victoria Arden, reveal how women can develop the skills to unspoil their men and encourage their men to be more equal givers. The authors explain how to: distinguish between a truly spoiled man and one who really isn't; dissect the various ways that spoiled men control women; and, deal with such men using a wide range of methods.With practical suggestions, lists, quizzes, and real-life vignettes, Stop Spoiling That Man helps readers focus on relationship-enhancing and self-protecting skills.