Modern marriage has reached a critical point. Romantic ideals of courtly love have proved increasingly unworkable within the routines and stresses of contemporary life, yet we still long for a deep intimacy with a life partner on all levels - sexual, emotional, mental and spiritual. John Welwood shows that although the romantic ideal is partly based on illusion, there are real possibilities of fulfilment and growth within a long-term intimate relationship. Even after the honeymoon is over, the energy of passion can be maintained and new depths of intimacy discovered. This book does not provide easy options and instant answers. Rather it provokes and encourages us to explore further, and to rise to the challenge of relationships in the modern world. It is hard work, but rewarding.