Part I: The Endless List. Unbalanced Participation: The Fundamental Cause of Parental Disagreement. Six Steps Toward Shortening Mom's Endless List. Increasing Men's Participation on the Parenting Team. Part II: Hot Spots for Women and Men. Discipline: The Pragmatist Versus the Idealist. Father Knows Best?: A Strict Dad and Lenient Mom. One Woman and Three Babies: A Strict Mom and Lenient Dad. Everything You Need to Know About Discipline: Practical Consequences by Age. How Women and Men Communicate Differently with Kids: What We Can Learn from Each Other. Networking: The Last Bastion of Women's Work. Letting Go: How to Survive Life Transitions Together. Part III: Beyond Gender...Almost. Help! How to Stop Losing It with Each Other: Time-out for Parents. Tactics and Temperament: How Children Create Parental Conflict and What You Can Do About It. Sibling Rivalry and the Parenting Team. Nourishing Each Other: The Parenting Team Can't Live Without It.