Hoffman's prose is near perfect: intense and imaginative, each sentence heavy with meaning without feeling overwritten. She balances the tightrope of not flinching away from violence, but also not lovingly describing it ... you'll find Be Safe I Love You to be brave, intelligent and unflinching The List It would be a mistake to understand Be Safe, I Love You only as a war novel. This is also a book about broken families and class and the impossible choices the working poor are too often forced to make ... Deeply moving and gorgeously written - raw in some places, tender in others ... We see how a woman's life is shaped by experiencing war as a soldier ... It is refreshing and so necessary to see a writer exploring this shift in fiction, addressing the unique sacrifices women must sometimes make Buzzfeed Be Safe I Love You is so much more than a thriller; it's a novel about family and sacrifice, loss and redemption. Hoffman proves that words are often the real tools of survival in this flawed but still often golden world Miami Herald Beautifully written and heart-wrenching Marie Clarie Through Lauren, Cara Hoffman's thoroughly researched and carefully crafted heroine, Be Safe I Love You illuminates the distaff side of military service and the ways that life in uniform are at once different and, at times, uncannily similar for men and women Washington Post A tense and stunning novel ... exactly what a war novel should be: a tale of refreshing honesty about the harm war does to us all -- Helen Benedict Guardian A finely tuned piece of fiction ... Be Safe I Love You is a painful exploration of the devastation wrought by combat even when the person returns from war without a scratch. The story - written with such lucid detail it's hard to believe the main character is an invention - suggests the damage starts long before the soldier reports for duty ... In crystalline language that conveys both the desolation of the Iraqi desert and the north country of New York State ... this book is a reminder that art and love are all that can keep us from despair -- Alissa J. Rubin New York Times Book Review A finely crafted and intelligent piece of fiction whose characters feel immediately real Daily Mail Unflinching ... Hoffman's skill is to embed her sleek sentences with hard-hitting themes ... a vivid depiction of life for a female warrior -- Anita Sethi Observer Thoughtful, subtle and tense Sunday Times A passionately angry, poetic, intelligent and shocking book. Cara Hoffman not only discovers the heart of darkness in small town Haeden, but brilliantly dissects it -- Rosamund Lupton, New York Times bestselling author of SISTER for SO MUCH PRETTY Beautiful, stealthy...an impassioned, intelligent and important work of a ... Hoffman [writes] with urgency and passion about what is really going on out there -- Chris Cleave, author of THE OTHER HAND for SO MUCH PRETTY So Much Pretty is an incredible, important book ... I think everyone should read it -- J. Courtney Sullivan, New York Times bestselling author of COMMENCEMENT and MAINE for SO MUCH PRETTY Fearless ... For all the passion in this intense narrative, Hoffman writes with a restraint that makes poetry of pain -- for SO MUCH PRETTY New York Times Book Review