Challenging current assumptions about sex in our society, a noted sex therapist shows women how to start living and loving with genuine pleasure regardless of where they fall on the libido meter How strong does a woman's sex drive have to be to be considered 'normal'? Is realistic (but not real) sex in the movies, in the magazines and just about everywhere else setting standards no couple can live up to? At various points in their lives one woman in every three will rate herself as lacking any interest in sex. Exposing unrealistic expectations in the modern world, Sandra Pertot reassures women who fear that diminished desire means there is something terribly wrong with them or their relationships. It makes no sense, she insists, to label low libido as sexual dysfunction when the numbers suggest it is 'perfectly normal'. Her thought-provoking and helpful book points the way to a new view of relationship sex and shows that living with low libido does not mean living without good loving.