The biggest obstacle to building long-standing and deep relationships, argues the author, is self-centredness. The solution offered in this book is forgiveness and a quality of love that directs more energy towards others' concerns rather than towards personal well being. This book includes a look at the Trinity, creation, the fall and a biblical understanding of the roles of men and women. Other books by Dr Larry Crabb include "Understanding People", "Basic Principles of Biblical Counselling" and "Effective Biblical Counselling".