FOREWORD BY PEGGY O'MARA
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
INTRODUCTION
PARENTING WITH EMPATHY AND TRUST
Getting It About Children
The Importance of Empathic Parenting
Nature or Nurture?
Tough Love
Confessions of a Proud Mom
Memories of a Loving Father
LIVING WITH A BABY
A Baby Cries: How Should Parents Respond?
Ten Reasons to Respond to a Crying Child
Siblings Arrive All at Once
Lonely Cages
Ten Ways to Grow a Happy Child
LIVING WITH CHILDREN
Ten Ways We Misunderstand Children
Ten Tips for Shopping With Children
When a Child has a Tantrum
The Hidden Messages We Give Our Children
Ten Tips for Finding a Medical Professional for Your Child
Natural Grandparenting
GUIDING CHILDREN
The Parenting Golden Rule
The Magic Words Must be Spoken from the Heart
The Trouble with Rewards
Praising our Children: Manipulation or Celebration?
It Shouldn't Hurt to be a Child
I Was Spanked and I'm Fine!
The Dangers of Holding Therapy
Ten Alternatives to Punishment
HELPING CHILDREN LEARN
Nurturing Children's Natural Love of Learning
When does Guidance become Manipulation?
School Grades: Helpful or Harmful?
Should Homeschoolers be Tested?
Learning Disability: A Rose by Another Name
Is I Love Lucy Educational?
ADVOCATING FOR CHILDREN
Is There Room for Children in our Society?
Intervening on Behalf of a Child in a Public Place
Intervention can Save Lives
Age Discrimination Harms Young and Old Alike
The Kids' Project: Breaking the Cycle of Abuse
CONCLUSION
ENDNOTES
ABOUT THE AUTHOR