Today's modern, feisty and financially independent women don't need to play games or play hard-to-get. Nothing is more attractive than a woman who knows who she is and what she wants. This is a guide to taking control of your love life for women. The first part of the volume aims to show the reader how to create a fulfilling, exciting lifestyle with an attitude makeover. The second part offers advice on negotiating the dangers of dating, and covers: what separates the men from the boys -from CBs (cute boys) to PFHs (potential future husbands) - and which one is right for you; the types of men to avoid - the Klingon (too dependent), the Bellhop (too much baggage) and the Whine Steward (never stops complaining); how to spot, approach and close the deal with a phone number in your pocket; and life after the first date - sex, commitment and marriage.