Crafted in the same engaging style as How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You and How to Be a People Magnet, UpDating! is aimed at the reader seeking love. Studies show that romantic partners tend to be just about equal in six currencies: Good looks; Wealth; Pleasing Personality; Intelligence; Social or Professional Status; and Inner Spirit.

The more equitable a romantic relationship is in these six areas, the more likely the relationship is to progress to marriage.