For more than 20 years Marc Gopin has sought to resolve bitter disputes in a variety of domestic and international settings. What he has learned - working for peace in sticky world trouble spots such as the Middle East and Northern Ireland - is that some conflicts, rooted in the deepest, most primal emotions, cannot be solved by rational discussion and negotiation. Instead the answer lies along a path of self-examination and spiritual growth. In his new book, Gopin details a process that will help people free themselves from the soul-poisoning effects of destructive conflict. The 8 steps he describes teach us how to: examine our inner lives so that our character becomes a true ally of healing, pay close attention to the power of our emotions and those of others in conflict, understand the dynamics of difficult situations, imagine creative solutions that no one dared see, and take powerful action that completely transforms hopeless situations. Serious and profound, beautifully written and sorely needed, this book can lead anyone to a healing of the heart that works equally well in the family, professional, and geopolitical spheres.