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Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone Mark Goulston, M.D.

Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone By Mark Goulston, M.D.

Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone by Mark Goulston, M.D.


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What would happen if you could persuade anyone to hear your point of view? Learn how to get through to people so that you can bring about real change and build deeper, more meaningful relationships in work and in life.

Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone Summary

Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone by Mark Goulston, M.D.

The first make-or-break step in persuading anyone to do any thing is getting them to hear you out. Whether the person is a harried colleague, a stressed-out client, or an insecure spouse, things will go from bad to worse if you can't break through emotional barricades. Drawing on his experience as a psychiatrist, business consultant, and coach, and backed by the latest scientific research, author Mark Goulston shares simple but power ful techniques readers can use to really get through to people-whether they're coworkers, friends, strangers, or enemies.

Getting through is a fine art but a critical one. With the help of this groundbreaking book readers will be able to turn the impossible and unreachable people in their lives into allies, devoted customers, loyal colleagues, and lifetime friends.

About Mark Goulston, M.D.

Mark Goulston, MD, FAPA is a board-certified psychiatrist, fellow of the American Psychiatric Association, former assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at UCLA NPI, and a former FBI and police hostage negotiation trainer. He is the creator of Theory Y Executive Coaching-which he provides to CEOs, presidents, founders, and entrepreneurs-and is a TEDx and international keynote speaker. He is the creator and developer of Surgical Empathy, a process to help people recover and heal from PTSD, prevent suicide in teenagers and young adults, and help organizations overcome implicit bias. Dr. Goulston is the author or principal author of seven prior books, including Why Cope When you Can Heal: How Healthcare Heroes of COVID-19 Can Recover from PTSD, PTSD for Dummies, Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior, Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone, Real Influence: Persuade Without Pushing and Gain Without Giving In, and Talking to Crazy: How to Deal with the Irrational and Impossible People in Your Life. He hosts the My Wakeup Call podcast, where he speaks with influencers about their purpose in life and the wakeup calls that led them there. He also is the co-creator and moderator of the multi-honored documentary Stay Alive: An Intimate Conversation About Suicide Prevention. He appears frequently as a human psychology and behavior subject-area expert across all media, including news outlets ABC, NBC, CBS, and BBC News, as well as CNN, Today, Oprah, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Fortune, Harvard Business Review, Business Insider, Fast Company, Huffington Post, and Westwood One.

Table of Contents

CONTENTS

Foreword by Keith Ferrazzi xv

Acknowledgments xvii

SECTION I The Secret to Reaching Anyone

1 Who's Holding YOU Hostage?

2 A Little Science: How the Brain Goes from No to Yes

SECTION II The Nine Core Rules for Getting Through to Anyone 25

3 Move Yourself from Oh F#@& to OK

4 Rewire Yourself to Listen

5 Make the Other Person Feel Felt

6 Be More Interested Than Interesting

7 Make People Feel Valuable

8 Help People to Exhale Emotionally and Mentally

9 Check Your Dissonance at the Door

10 When All Seems Lost-Bare Your Neck

11 Steer Clear of Toxic People

SECTION III 12 Quick and Easy Ways to Achieve Buy-In and Get Through

12 The Impossibility Question

13 The Magic Paradox

14 The Empathy Jolt

15 The Reverse Play, Empathy Jolt #2

16 Do You Really Believe That?

17 The Power of Hmmm . . .

18 The Stipulation Gambit

19 From Transaction to Transformation

20 Side by Side

21 Fill in the Blanks

22 Take It All the Way to No

23 The Power Thank You and Power Apology

SECTION IV Putting It All Together: Fast Fixes for Seven Challenging Situations

24 The Team from Hell

25 Climbing the Ladder

26 The Narcissist at the Table

27 Stranger in Town

28 The Human Explosion

29 Getting Through to Yourself

30 Six Degrees of Separation

Afterword

Index

About the Author

Keynotes/Workshops

Additional information

GOR002762292
9780814414033
0814414036
Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone by Mark Goulston, M.D.
Used - Very Good
Hardback
HarperCollins Focus
20091016
256
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