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Lighter as We Go Mindy Greenstein (Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center)

Lighter as We Go By Mindy Greenstein (Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center)

Summary

Contrary to common wisdom and the fears of mid-lifers, our sense of well-being actually goes up in older age, even in the presence of illness or disability. Lighter as We Go is the first book to explore how and why that is, drawing on positive psychology and concepts of character strengths and virtues.

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Lighter as We Go: Virtues, Character Strengths, and Aging by Mindy Greenstein (Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center)

Fifty year olds fear what sixty-five will look like, while thirty year olds dread fifty, and twenty year olds thirty. The fears of aging are like one long cascading domino effect of the fears of aging. And there is something to worry about, though it isn't what you'd expect: research shows that having a bad attitude toward aging when we're young is associated with poorer health when we're older. But many eighty year olds would tell people old age is better than they think. In fact, worries tend to peak in midlife, according to the U-Bend studies (so-called because the pattern of well-being throughout the lifespan resembles a U) that show that the older we get, the greater our sense of well-being. In the words of philosopher William May, we learn to travel light. Over the course of a lifetime of crises and accomplishments, we learn who we are and what our character strengths and virtues are. And we discover we may actually like ourselves. Here, Jimmie Holland and Mindy Greenstein explore positive aging and the role of character strengths and virtues along the way. They touch on compassion, empathy, kindness, justice, beauty, optimism, and hope in the context of community, experience, and culture. They go on to explore self-control, humor, courage, and wisdom, and what elderly people can teach the young. Lighter as We Go-a joint venture by an eighty-five year old and a fifty year old-explores what it means to travel light, and the fascinating process of getting there.

Lighter as We Go Reviews

I happen to fall (bad word) into the fastest growing age group-the 90 and over crowd. What to do? I say go right now, no matter your age, and get Lighter As We Go because it is the last word on the subject of growing older and living well with it. Mindy Greenstein and Jimmie Holland, at middle and older ages, have great ideas that connect with my own! Live like you're 50- have a ball! When you're 90, act any way you please! This book will help you see the rewards you haven't even thought about. * Liz Smit *
This delightful, highly readable book utilizes personal stories and a bit of human history to paint a picture of successful aging in which the mind and spirit triumph over physical limitations, and generativity and eudaimonia prevail. This outlook is consistent with information emerging from neuroscience and molecular medicine that not only are physical activity, hedonic satisfaction and good self-regulation of health behaviors important for sustaining good mental and physical health but also that finding meaning and purpose in life can be enormously beneficial. * Bruce S. McEwen, Ph.D., Alfred E. Mirsky Professor and Head, Harold and Margaret Milliken Hatch, Laboratory of Neuroendocrinology, The Rockefeller University *
Drs. Greenstein and Holland have a unique ability to draw the reader into this ongoing and enchanting review of aging writ wide and in the spirit of 'lighter as we go.' The book is truly uplifting and fun, not didactic or sterile, unlike anything I have read about successful aging. One cannot read this book dispassionately or in isolation, so prepare yourselves to join this symposium just as Cicero called his listeners to join him through his treatise On Old Age. And like any good conversation, Jimmie and Mindy leave us prepared and eager to continue our reflections and discussion far beyond the occasion of the book. * Dan Blazer, MD, PhD, J.P. Gibbons Professor, Psychiatry & Behavioral Sciences, Duke University Medical Center, Division of Community and Family Medicine, School of Medicine *

About Mindy Greenstein (Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center)

Mindy Greenstein, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, researcher, and author whose book The House on Crash Corner and Other Unavoidable Calamities (with a foreword by New York Times columnist David Brooks), was chosen as one of O: The Oprah Magazine's Books to Pick Up. She is co-developer of Meaning-Centered Group Psychotherapy, and a current research affiliate working with the geriatric psychiatry team at the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Science at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. Her essays have appeared in the New York Times, Washington Post, Los Angeles Times, SELF, and elsewhere. Dr. Greenstein also blogs for Psychology Today. She lives in New York City with her husband and two sons. Dr. Jimmie Holland is known as the founder of the subspecialty psycho-oncology in cancer. Her work has been seminal in alerting oncologists to the psychosocial needs of patients and to the evidence-based interventions available today. The development of a body of literature, an international journal, textbooks and training curricula resulted in a science of psychosocial care. Dr. Holland made the information available in a book widely read by cancer patients, The Human Side of Cancer: Living with Hope, Coping with Uncertainty.

Table of Contents

Introduction ; Part I: Character, Character Strength, and Continuity Over Time ; Chapter 1. The Oak Tree and the U-Bend: Age, Well-Being, and the Experience of Me-ness ; Chapter 2. A Look at the Grownup Years ; Chapter 3. Character Strengths and Virtues ; Chapter 4. Older Age in the Olden Days: A History of Aging in the Western World ; Part II: The Virtues ; Chapter 5. The Virtue of Transcendence: Beyond the Self ; Chapter 6. The Underappreciated Virtue of Humor: You Can't Spell Joy Without the Oy ; Chapter 7. The Virtues of Humanity and Social Justice: Do Unto Others ; Chapter 8. The Virtue of Courage: If I Only Had the Nerve ; Chapter 9. The Virtue of Wisdom: Knowing What We Don't Know ; Chapter 10. The Virtue of Temperance: Moderation in All Things (almost) ; Chapter 11. The Virtue of Passing on to the Next Generation: The Bridge Between Past and Future ; Part III Putting the Virtues to Work ; Chapter 12. When Older Doesn't Feel Lighter: Loneliness and Social Isolation ; Chapter 13. The Virtue of Appreciating the Cycle of Life in Elders ; Appendix: Vintage Readers Book Club Readings

Additional information

CIN0199360952G
9780199360956
0199360952
Lighter as We Go: Virtues, Character Strengths, and Aging by Mindy Greenstein (Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Psychologist and psycho-oncologist, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center)
Used - Good
Hardback
Oxford University Press Inc
2014-10-23
312
N/A
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