Panel by panel, this graphic memoir is wry, intelligent, compelling, and adorable.
-starred review, Kirkus Reviews
Drawn in black and white with artfully enhancing overlaid washes in one or multiple colors, Kirby's layouts vary- paneled and not; text inside and outside the lines; single-page images both boxed and floating-as if emphasizing life's unpredictability: 'Who knows what this could turn into,' Kirby's final text bubble muses.
-starred review, Booklist
Rob Kirby's delightful memoir about tying the knot with his longtime partner, John, perfectly captures that uneasy relationship that so many same-sex couples had with the institution of marriage when it finally opened its arms to us.
-Justin Hall, editor of No Straight Lines: Four Decades of Queer Comics
This intimate and urgent exploration of what marriage means perfectly argues how the personal is profoundly political.
-Publishers Weekly
Marry Me a Little is a laugh-out-loud meditation on The Institution from all angles; gay, straight, sincere, cynical, and cockeyed.
-Eric Orner, author and illustrator of Smahtguy: The Life and Times of Barney Frank
A heartfelt memoir that also serves to document LGBTQ+ marriage in the US, Rob Kirby's Marry Me a Little combines the personal and the political into a single, affecting graphic novel.
-Peter Dabbene, Foreword Reviews
A personal look inside of a moment in history that's both wildly significant and beautifully mundane.
-Mary E. Butler, Library Journal
[A] whimsical, 112-page account, which brims with sweet (but not sappy) recollections about love, set in a period of extraordinary change.
-Laura Yuen, Minneapolis Star Tribune
This is a story of ambivalence, and it's still incredibly compelling throughout.
-Optical Sloth
Marry Me a Little is a touching, human, honest, and honestly funny look at the politics, big and little, of same-sex marriage. It's addictive, gentle-spirited reading that's also tough-minded in all the right places.
-Mark Harris, author of Mike Nichols: A Life
Rob's sweet and funny story captures perfectly why Minnesotans voted to reject an anti-marriage amendment, paving the way for the passage of the Freedom to Marry a few months later. Now, young people, no matter their circumstance, will grow up knowing that the most important thing in life, love, is a good thing. No fear. No shame. Love won.
-Scott Dibble, Minnesota State Senator
I'm a reluctantly romantic queer Gen Xer who is ambivalent about the institution of marriage, so this book really spoke to me. I laughed, I cried, but most of all I really just loved it. Rob Kirby has long been one of my favorite cartoonists, and this is his finest work yet!
-MariNaomi, author and illustrator of I Thought You Loved Me
Rob Kirby's delightful memoir about tying the knot with his longtime partner, John, perfectly captures that uneasy relationship that so many same-sex couples had with the institution of marriage when it finally opened its arms to us. After so many years, should any of us trust what had always been a privileged place of hetero power? Kirby, an accomplished and talented cartoonist, lays bare his ambivalence in an engaging and dynamic way, bringing the reader along with him, John, and their dog Ginger as they navigate this next step to both empowerment and assimilation. As with all of Kirby's work, an empathic warmth suffuses the book, and the profound love affair between Kirby and John is at the center of everything. As Kirby writes, and as every reader of this book will wholeheartedly agree by the end, 'People just love love!'
-Justin Hall, editor of No Straight Lines: Four Decades of Queer Comics
Rob Kirby is a treasure of American cartooning. In Marry Me a Little, he lulls you into satisfaction with his trademarked friendly and engaging drawing style so that you don't see the two-by-four of his message coming to whack you upside the head. Marry Me a Little is a laugh-out-loud meditation on The Institution from all angles: gay, straight, sincere, cynical, and cockeyed. It confronts great issues of the day while allowing you to enjoy the pleasing domesticity of Kirby's story. It's like sitting in your dear friend's kitchen during a snowstorm while the two of you drink coffee, eat oatmeal cookies, and solve the world's problems. In other words, it couldn't be more enjoyable.
-Eric Orner, author and illustrator of Smahtguy: The Life and Times of Barney Frank
