As everything from the success of Bridget Jones Diary to Kathryn Letts Observer column shows, getting and keeping your man is an increasing problem. There are more single 30-something women that there has ever been in history. Commitment is a big issue - and remains so after marriage with nearly 1 in 2 now ending in divorce. So what makes so many men commitment-phobes? And what attracts women to commitment-phobic men? And, above all, how do you resolve the problem to live happily ever after?

Britain s most popular agony aunt uses her 20 years of counselling experience to reveal the underlying issues - and to provide the solutions - in this first book to address one of the most critical problems in today s relationships.